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How You See Yourself Ultimately Decides The Kind of Life You Will Live

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Until the moment when we finally find our souls, we are always being influenced by the environment we are in from a very young age. Our thoughts and beliefs are pretty much entirely shaped by our family and society.  However, what the world often says and what the world later does are often against each other. One day, when we feel that we are completely abandoned by the world, we will slowly come to a realisation and enlightenment. That is when our inner selves will grow to be stronger, we learn to ignore the naysayers, we form new perspectives on Life and gain alternative strategies on how to traverse this world we live in. It is at this moment that your inner soul is no longer as ignorant as it used to be; all sorts of Joker , big or small, will be born.  Joker (2019 film) From the Big Bang, to the formation of our solar system, to the existence of Mother Earth, to the creation of various lifeforms, to the evolution of Homo Sapiens, to the birth of your very self.
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Everything You Gave Up When You Were 15, You May Come To Regret At 18...All the Laziness You Entitled Yourself To, Will Come Back To Haunt You

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Life is always like this, whatever you have lost, fate will use another method to compensate you. When one species of flower withers away, another species will flourish in its new place. One day, you will realise that everything you have lost, will be compensated in another fashion. Those who get duly compensated in the future, are the ones who have reunited with the better version of themselves in due time.  Most of us often find ourselves looking for a job after graduating from University, only to find ourselves feeling tired at the end of each working day, whining away about the completing the task at hand and cannot seem to find a way out after several revisions.  In fact, there is another perspective to this situation. Is it true that putting in the effort means you will get the due credit? Having to spend long hours editing the same article for 30 times, or correcting a work report for 40 times does not prove your diligence and accomplishments. As an analogy, if a person
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Courageous People Will Make Themselves Look Normal. 5 Signs Of "Courage" Based on Alfred Adler's Psychology Theory

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Those who lack courage, will resort to all means possible to look 'special'; those who possess courage, will blend themselves in as being 'normal'. Courage is the feeling in which you experience strength and you are of worth, as well as the belief that you can take on Life's problems. Life's going will never be all rosy and smooth-sailing, it may sometimes be due to work, interpersonal relationships, love relationships, or parent-child relationships; or it may also be due to a series of obstacles you faced along the way. Whenever we encounter difficulties, all of us are given two choices: one is to face it head on, and another is to run away from it. The latter of which is termed is Superiority Complex and Inferiority Complex. Let's take a look the 5 signs of "Courage" as advocated through Alfred Adler's school of thoughts.  The feeling that you are capable and worthy of achievements The crux of the problem is that avoiding problems
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Killing Time? You Are In Fact Attempting Chronic Suicide

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At face value, you would like to think there is nothing to fret about if you only manage to regress by 10% within a year. However, it would seem pretty significant at close to 35% ( 0.9^10 ) overall after accumulating for 10 straight years straight. Using the same analogy, it wouls seem there is nothing remarkable if you only strive to improve by 10% every year. On the flip side, you would have vastly surpassed your current self by 259% ( 1.1^10 ) given 10 years of consistent improvement effort. That is already more than twice of where you are as of now.  There is something even more astounding with this: 259 / 35 = 761%   ! That is a whopping 7.6 times over that self that has continually regressed over the same span of 10 years in another parallel universe. In other words, your daily effort to improve yourself may have yielded little result of 10% in just one year. It may not be something worthy of mention but everything will only be clear in 10 years. One is in heaven and
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Are You Being Labelled with Lots of "Should Be"?

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Do you know how to identify the full spectrum of human emotions? And just what are any of these emotions trying to tell us? What should you do after these emotions arrive? And where do you keep them after they are ready to be put back into 'storage'? All of these are what we deem as Emotional Intelligence . Imagine that you are wearing nice clothes and strolling on a nice pavement in a sunny day, and enjoying the nice breeze and the warm sun. At this very moment, you love the weather, the environment, as well as the happy you. You notice someone some of the people around you displaying that dreaded lifeless expression, and all of the sudden upon looking at your cheerful disposition, reveal a slight smile. Nobody will probably deny that what was described is happiness and satisfaction, and it is one of the best and also one of the easiest to attain. In this form of happiness, it involves you and those around you. If you take a moment to observe further those passersb
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