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The moment you have chosen to leave, your ensuing focus ought to be on how you should move on forward there and then. The moment you have decided on next move, you must never hesitate on going back. The moment you have made your choice, you must never think at any given moment if any other moves would have yielded a much better outcome or not. As a matter of fact, there is barely enough time for you to show reluctance in anything in Life. It is either you choose to do what you have always liked to do for yourself, or you like to do what you have chosen to do for yourself; and there is never a need to compare your choice with the choices of others, for there are way too many options to have in this world and you would have lost the beauty of its original intention after comparison. No one is perfect in this world, neither does the perfect choice exist at all throughout history. Moreover, you will definitely be able to discover the loopholes and find room for more improveme...

If you are someone who is afraid of confrontation and conflicts and would prefer to be the "good person" instead, you are setting yourself up in a very disadvantageous position. Why do some people prefer to play the part of the good guy? Why is it that being that good guy almost always entails self-sacrificing? In fact, c hoosing to stifle who you are just so you can please others often indicates an inability to be independent at the subconscious level. As long as you have established your own mental model and make a stand on your own, you would be able to stand your own ground to decide for yourself if "this decision is necessary for myself". Of course, there will be times when the judgements of others are against what you stand for. "Since both parties have differing views, we should then resolve this problem through constructive discussions." However, whenever someone else disagrees with the good guy's opinions, he or she often lack...