Be The Judge Of Your Own Life

When you are living the high life, there will be people who feel you are someone who likes to show off; when you are down and out, there will be people who feel you do not put in enough effort to improve yourself. When you finish your work fast, there will be people who mock you for not being challenged with enough workload; when you are trying to be meticulous in completing your work, there will be people who resent you for moving things too slowly. Trying to stay positive has turned into naivety for others, and staying negative has turned into passivity for others. Being labelled as a workaholic and someone who has no social life simply for knocking off late for work, and being described as someone who likes to goof off and not serious at work simply for getting off work early.




The world we are living in has always been like that, no matter how hard you try to change yourself, there will always have others who never quite understand your intentions; even if you have put in your best effort, there is always something for others to pick on. Nevertheless, no matter how you turn out to be, both favorable and unfavorable traits will always exist. The most important thing is whether you are going to blame yourself through someone else's mouth, or find that motivation through the desirable future that you always envisage yourself in.

Nobody else has the right to judge how each of us go about our everyday lives. Only you yourself get to qualify if you are good enough. Do not ever give up on fighting for yourself; all the bad moments shall soon be over before you know it. For as long as you continue to persevere in your quest to become better, the good moments shall reach you in ways that will confound and astonish everyone, including yourself.

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