Our Inadequacies In Life Are Irrelevant

Many a times, the very reasons why we are unable to live our lives happily are due to the fact that we have grown to put too much attention on the opinions of others; we have grown to become less sensitive to many of the simple things which used to fill us with happiness; and we have grown to see the world with a much narrower view than ever before.

Moreover, all of us are living in a society that constantly reminds us of our own inadequacies. No matter whether it is television advertisements, social media, or other relatives, salesmen and saleswomen trying their best to convince you with "This is for your own good.", all of these are only suggesting that your contributions, whatever you have achieved thus far, are not good enough for what you are worth. The only gripe with all these is that all of these portrayals are, more often than not, on the extreme upper end of the echelon. However, they have all been served to us as standards and the social norm; that not owning this or not achieving that can only mean you are losing out on this race.


You ought to first believe you are already good enough being the way you are right now. This does not necessarily mean that you are going to be someone who would rest on the laurels, neither are you someone who is not going to work hard anymore. This is so that you can be ready to accept whoever you are right now and the state you are presently in, regardless of your own merits or shortcomings.

Being able to come to terms with yourself as being someone who is already good enough will give you the confidence to stride towards a even better you in the future. As you should clearly know for yourself that you are not to become someone whom others expect of you, but to finally develop yourself into someone that you can be proud of.

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