What Is To Give Light Must Always Endure The Burning

Never ever doubt yourself. You can never stop anyone from trying to put you down, but no one can ever stop you from deciding that you want to become better for yourself. In your lifetime, there lies three main types of relationship in this world: a relationship with yourself, a relationship with loved ones, and a relationship with the world. The most important relationship is with Yourself. Everything else is secondary, for however you see for yourself, the world shall represent itself in your own way.

Oftentimes, you will come to realize there are many obstructions that will attempt to stop you in your tracks whenever you are hard at work trying to be better. There are some who will stand on one side and make a mockery out of you; there are others whose contributions may unintentionally nullify most of what you have contributed thus far; there will also be some who will intentionally beat you down and bring you back to square one. The most painful part is that after a certain period of time putting in that effort, you unconsciously start to find yourself worse than when you started off with. However, you should always take to heart that none of your disappointment is ever permanent.

As a matter of fact, there is nothing out of the ordinary for coming face to face with these problems, for these obstructions have always been there since the dawn of time. The reason why you may have negative emotions running through your mind is due to the fact that you are attempting to traverse on a whole new path that is different from the one you have always been travelling on before. In other words, you are on your way of changing yourself for the better; you have broken out of your comfort zone and this pain is an exact proof of that. So long as you have an unwavering belief and decide for yourself that this new path you attempt to step into will lead you to a whole new place where you finally belong, most of the things shall conspire to help you achieve it.

Never give up so you can continue to stay accountable for yourself despite any setbacks. No matter what those naysayers have been talking behind your back, your purpose is never to please them. Your ultimate aim is to be focused on the matters that will allow you to get to places you wish for yourself. Maintain your sight relentlessly on the prize at the very end, and focus mindfully on each step you are making along the way. Although there is never a need to care about the others, your persistence, however, will always be your best response to all their scorning and contempt towards you. Always remember, there will always be someone out there who will look down on you, and you must always make sure that someone must never be yourself. 

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